Be Nice To Myself Week

After getting my pedicure yesterday, I decided I was going to do something nice for myself every day this week.

No. I don’t do something nice for myself every day.


I dont know why. I guess I never thought about it like this before, but maybe it’s something I should start.

Do you do something nice for yourself every day?

I’m so used to getting what needs to be done on my list done I forget to be nice to myself.

Isn’t this sad?

I feel like a huge light bulb went on over my head and I had Ahh! Moment.

I will definately be thinking about this at work today.

Being nice to myself. I definately wasn’t taught this growing up. I was taught to be nice to others and put their needs before mine, but never to be nice to myself.

I let myself sleep for an extra hour this morning and it was awesome. There was a cool breeze blowing in the window and I was snuggled my blankets and cozy. This was the nice thing I did for myself today.

Now I’m thinking about what nice thing I can do for myself tomorrow!

How fun!

Little Babies Growing

I’ve driven by farm fields before where crops were growing, but never when the little babies had recently popped out of the ground.

These little guys are so beautiful! I love this photo!

I was awed. With of all the crappy, cold and rainy weather we’ve had in the last couple of weeks (I took this picture in the rain) these little guys are growing.

It gives me hope.

The farm field kind of reminds me of my life right now. There has been a lot of rain and clouds and uncertainty in my life lately, but there’s also been moments of little bits of sunshine. I see new parts of me that have popped out and started growing.

I’m kind of excited to see what will pop out next in my life and start growing if I keep working on and watering and caring for myself.

I have an accupuncture appointment later on tody so I will drive by the farm field and check on how the little guys are doing.

Life is good.

A Positive Father’s Day

We went to the cemetery to visit my dad’s crypt as a family today. My mom, sister and brother and I met there (except for my angry brother).

I hate Father’s Day. Since my died, Father’s Day is the worst holiday for me. It makes me so sad. All you hear on the radio and TV is how you should buy your dad something for Father’s Day. It’s his special day and he deserves something special.

I’m constantly reminded that I don’t have a dad to buy anything for or spend tine with.

My heart aches.

On November 3 it will be the 5 year anniversary of his death.

I realized the other day, after reading thegsandwhich’s post, that I can’t carry around this negativity anymore. I have to figure out a positive way to channel my grief and make a difference. My dad was a very giving man with his time and money.

Maybe next year I will donate money to a charity in his name.

Thank you, thegsandwhich, for sharing how you remember your dad through golf and I can remember my dad through something he loved and shared with me.

I miss my dad more than anyone will ever know, but I know he wouldn’t want me to wallow in my sadness.

He would want me to make a difference in someone else’s life so that is what I will do.

Happy Father’s Day Dad. Love and miss you tons. ❤❤❤

I Turned My Heat Back On!

I never thought I would say this, but I turned my heat back on today.

When I came downstairs this morning my thermostat read 64. It was chilly. My feet were cold.

I turned on the weather channel. 72 for the high today and 60 for the low. Its cloudy with a chance a rain.


What the heck?

I shouldn’t be cold in the middle of June. I shouldn’t have the heat on. I shouldn’t have to wear a hoody when I leave work.

And there’s isn’t any global warming. Yeah right.

Hopefully I won’t have to have the heat for long.

For now, I’ll put jeans on and grab my hoody before I go to work.

Have a great weekend.

What Do I Need?

My husband and I have fighting lately. Partly because I don’t think my needs are being met.

I’ve been so busy making sure he gets what he needs done, I’ve ignored myself.

But, the thing I realized today as I write in my journal, is I’m not even sure I know what my needs are.

What do I need to make my mind, body and soul happy and fulfilled?

I know there’s excercise and eating healthy. Getting enough sleep. This is an everyday thing.

But what about on a daily basis? I think it changes. Since I’m been writing in my journal every day, I’ve been hearing or feeling little inklings. For example, I would like to sleep a little longer today or I would like to color today for fifteen minites.

I’ve been trying listening to myself more and be open to what my life and body are telling me.

It’s been weird putting myself first.

I keep asking myself the same question over and over again.

How in the hell did I get so far away from myself and what I want and need?

I’m embarrassed to admit this. It’s really sad at 54 to realize I’ve been putting someone else’s needs and wants before my own and putting myself last. It makes me angry, too.

I say my needs aren’t being met, but it’s been hard to put into words what those needs are.

At first, I was mad at my husband for not giving me what I need. Then I was mad at myself for not knowing.

That’s what I have been thinking about lately. What I need. What I want. I have to admit it seems kind of selfish but it’s also been fun.

I’m getting to know myself again and you know what I’ve learned?

I’m really something special!

A Little Problem Last Night

I dont know how it happened last night but I published three posts that were drafts and not even close to being.finished. As you had probably guessed…..

At first I was upset and wondered how it could have happened. Did I push publish but I wasn’t even looking at those posts. I don’t quite understand how.

But then i thought why am I stressing over this? It’s not even worth it. My blogging friends know I dont publish half written posts. Everything is ok.

Lesson for the day:

Don’t sweat the small stuff.